Over the last three or four seasons of the show, we’ve all watched Rasheeda and Kirk Frost‘s marriage highs and lows due to Kirk’s promiscuity and got a baby along the way.
Fans however wondered why Rasheeda forgave her husband after he publicly humiliated her on national television — knowing damn well she too will have to sit down and watch it.
Guess what? Rasheeda recently explained why she forgave Kirk and revealed a little secret of her own.
Back in March, VH1 released a supertrailer of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta in anticipation of its season 8 premiere. In the clip, Rasheeda made a shocking revelation by saying, “I ain’t always been perfect,” she said in one scene. “We’ve had infidelities from both sides.”
And although Kirk’s cheating ass was bashed for doing his wife dirty, Rasheeda stepping outside of their marriage was news to many.
“Kirk and [I] done been through a whole, whole, lot of s–t,” she added. “We’re at this point in our relationship where you gotta put things behind you in order to move forward.”
During Monday night’s episode of LHHATL, she elaborated on what she meant about “infidelities on both sides” on her planned couples getaway.
Rasheeda and Kirk, who have been married for 20 years, played counselors on the trip.
“Nobody is perfect and relationships have issues, but y’all also gotta understand forgiveness, too,” she said. “That’s what I have learned to understand because we’ve had to forgive each other for sh-t. I ain’t always been perfect in my marriage. We’ve had dishonesty from both sides of us in this marriage. We’ve had infidelities from both sides of us in this marriage.”
Lil Scrappy was in total shock and even said, “I can’t hear that coming out of your mouth!”
Rasheeda admitted that Kirk’s statement was true and followed up with:
“My situation was a very long time ago,” she said. “We grew together. You think at some points in time we didn’t think, ‘Oh, this may not work’? We brought y’all so that y’all could see that we’re putting that behind us.”
“So yes, you know I’ve had infidelities in the past, early in Kirk and I’s relationship. But honestly, at this point, bringing everybody here is for everybody to discuss things and face it,” she added in her confessional. “We have to come together and face it and talk about it. That’s how you move past it.”
And as for Kirk’s advice:
“Anybody that’s outside of y’all relationship, don’t let them have so much power to separate y’all,” he said. “Because people be miserable.”
But do you feel like Rasheeda only came clean to make her husband look good on TV? Um, let us know what you think in the comments below….